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My ex is with someone but contacts me

Answer based on things you can observe. This quiz is not a diagnosis or a prediction.

1. Do they initiate contact without being prompted?
2. Do their actions match their words?
3. Have you had a clear conversation about what each person wants?
4. Are your boundaries respected?
5. Does their behaviour remain consistent over several weeks?
6. Can both of you address uncertainties without pressure?
7. Are you responding to the facts rather than only to your hopes?

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